the worrying kind worrying

I've just learned that I am not a complete selfish bastard who has no regard for anybody else but myself. (Trust me, I've been accused of such.) It's a revelation.

I actually am feeling really bad right now, all because someone I care about broke up with her first boyfriend, and I am worried for her.

Yeah, now I am not just worrying about myself and all my troubles. I've taken on other's problems as well. Nice.

I think it's better to be a selfish bastard.